OUR STORY

Why I built Sane Girl

I know what it's like to question your own memory. To replay a conversation at 1am trying to figure out if you're the problem. To be told you're "too sensitive" so many times you start to believe it.

I've watched it happen to women I love in relationships — falling for the wrong person, slowly losing themselves in the confusion. And I know the quieter version too: the kind that doesn't come from a partner you can leave, but from family.

Both kinds of manipulation work the same way: they're designed to be invisible. So I decided to make them visible.

For the ones leaving, and the ones who can't

The ones leaving

Seeing a relationship clearly enough to walk away

The ones who can't

Tied to people by history and obligation — where "just leave" was never an option.

Sane Girl is for both. It names what's happening, hands you the receipts, and reminds you your gut was right — whether you're getting out, or just trying to stay sane where you are.

Built by women, for women

I'm the psychology geek behind Sane Girl — the features, the language, the way it names what's really going on. My sister is the one who brought it to life technically and made it real.

Two women, building the tool we wished every woman had. Sane Girl is women-owned and women-first— made by people who understand what it feels like to be told you're "too sensitive," and who refuse to make you prove yourself to anyone.

Private where it counts.

Your Reality Vault — your evidence, your timeline — is completely private. We can never see it, access it, or open it. It's yours alone.

When Sane Girl analyzes a conversation, the text is processed securely — but it's never sold, never shared, and never used to build a profile of you.

To help you stop second-guessing yourself. To hand you the receipts when your gut already knew. To help you feel sane again.

Stay sane. 💁🏽‍♀️